People hardly take risks so they never find out the meaning of love.
But let me teach you something new. "LOVE IS WHAT YOU GIVE AND NOT WHAT YOU GET". This is the difference between God and the devil. GOD GIVES, BUT THE DEVIL WILL ALWAYS WANT TO TAKE FROM YOU.
Likewise, many are in it for what they get. And when they stop getting, they conclude: "he/she doesn't love me anymore".
BE A GIVER AND NOT A TAKER OF LOVE.
Not giving everything is being selfish. You are only trying out. Will it work, or won't it work? No one jumps off a storey building and returns in mid air. That's what love is; giving it all. If Jesus hadn't done that you wouldn't be saved today. The bible says ". . .WHILE WE WERE YET SINNERS CHRIST DIED FOR US" (Romans 5:8). Notice; While we were yet sinners. not when we became righteous.
This is love. What I give. Not what he/she does. Anything other than this isn't love but infatuation. So you better know what you are up against.
NOTE: This note isn't meant for married couples. For you it is a different ball game all together.
God set the rules. "HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES, WIVES HONOUR YOUR HUSBANDS". Period!!!
Let me put it this way. "Husbands don't demand love from your wives" and wives "don,t demand respect and honour from your husbands".
But there is a secret. You can't give and not recieve. So wife you want respect. You give it first. For you it's a law demanded. For him, it's a response you get. Give him some respect and people will accuse you of giving him "KOP NO MI". . . . . (pardon me if you don't know what that means).
Same thing; Husband you want respect, then show that woman some love.
LOVE IS AS SIMPLE AS ABC. . .try it. It works.
